Healing Your Attachment Style With Money
Often we look at our attachment style in relationship to a partner.
However, it’s huge to understand in your relationship with your business + money.
Many times clients come to me..
ready to get out of the cycle of chasing the next client or next high in business while still expanding into their desires
wanting to deepen to feel safety in their body during launches + selling
desiring to run their business in a way that feels sustainable for them
releasing the fears of will it run out, will I be able to keep it, what if??
increasing their capacity to receive, hold, and recreate good things.
feeling like they’ve hit limits on how many people enroll into their programs
tired of the anxious or avoidant feelings they feel with money or business
ready to move out of inconsistency + finding consistency
Attachment Repair work is a major foundation of my work with my private + mastermind clients.
Why? Because rupture happened in connection + must be repaired in connection.
And when you do this, you begin to experience the four cornerstones of a secure attachment (Peter Cummings)
I had no idea where my attachment trauma was leaking into my relationship with business + money.
Until I began the depths of the work in healing my attachment wounds.
I would declare these big goals in business.
And things would begin to move, but my internal tape kept playing a similar story. I couldn’t feel the success I had because it wasn’t the *exact* thing I wanted.
Those things I would even subconsciously sweep under the rug, didn’t go away.
Most of the time I couldn’t even see it because I was so deeply taken over by my parts. #thisiswhywehealinconnection lol our parts are so smart.
Everyone would be like surrender + release control. But I couldn’t seem to truly let go and find presence.
I craved to be able to receive more, hold more, allow more goodness in, but my body told a different story.
It told the story of chasing, sometimes even in the most subtle of ways.
It told the story of hoping that at one point I would be “full” and enough.
It told the story of launch after launch running to the next income marker.
It told the story of when will there be more than just enough?
I made it my commitment to love the part of me that loves to grow + scale her business (because I’m not gonna lie I LOVE momentum forward) but from an embodied place vs a dysregulated chase.
I won’t sugar coat that it’s a dedication to this.
Day in and day out, weekly sessions week in and week out.
But I can truly say this..
Myself and my business, has never felt more grounded since I began this work several years ago.
I feel so open to truly receive.
It feels safe to be.
I can communicate even more effectively and from a regulated space.
My attunement to clients and groups is unlike any containers I’ve led.
The amount of trust I have + resiliency is remarkable.
The safer we feel in our bodies, the safer we feel to receive all it is that we desire.
I’m here to bring this work into the world in business. I want this for you.
Ease in your business isn’t just that things are easy. Lol that would be nice. It’s about what I call energetically aligning and scaling effortlessly, meaning you’re not trapped in your attachment trauma + responses running the show.
If you’re ready to start healing your attachment style, check out the episode Adult Attachment Repair Model with Peter Cummings on my podcast The Energetics Of Business.