Release The Control
What if you just allowed yourself to be “in it”
Rather than an agenda in your healing.
In this space there’s no “getting” with your healing, yet often we turn our healing into something to “get”
You can’t just heal with the intention to “get to the other side” or more abundance, love, downloads, gifts, whatever.
Sure, that comes naturally. But what’s your focus point?
The deeper we go, we allow the collective to come with us.
Allow yourself to go there, to be held there, to honor all the parts of you.
You know when children first interact with animals, they want to squeeze them?
I use to do this. Hold my kitties really tight and carry them around the yard.
Constantly checking on them, messing with them, wanting to control.
How often do we find ourselves doing this in business?
Having a tight grip on our results.
Judging the fuck out of it when it isn’t doing what you want it to do.
Trying to control, figure out, check on, fix, change, force.
Give yourself some compassion, some grace, some love, and release the control.
Releasing control is one of the hardest things for us as humans.
When we feel the need to have a lot of control over the outcome of something, there are probably things we want to control in other areas of our lives too.
Ask yourself and your clients: Where else in your life do you have trouble releasing control?
Ask: What does it feel like to release control around this? Anxious? Not safe? Overwhelming?
Be honest with yourself on what it feels like to release control.
What past patterns or stories come up around “control”?
When we can identify that, we can go in and heal that part of you, meet your need, forgive your little girl, and start making shifts towards being able to release and relax.
Are you ready to release the control? Come join me in my 1-1 coaching sessions.